when did your marriage turn into just a scheduling meeting?

Asked by asking_anon_81

ok so lately every convo with my husband is like "did you pay the water bill" "who's picking up kaylee from practice" "we need more milk" and thats... it. like i love that we run the household well together, thats real and it matters, but i miss just talking to him about nothing. we used to text dumb memes and now its just logistics and kid stuff. not mad, just kinda sad about it if that makes sense. has anyone actually turned this around without it feeling forced or cheesy? like what was the first small thing you did to get an actual conversation back instead of a to-do list read out loud lol