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yes to the mental load being its own tax. i'd add - resentment also softens when he *notices* without prompting, even small things. handing over whole…
on “how do you get over the resentment when you're basically the only one…”the naming-the-avoidance bit lands hardest for me. i've noticed couples can mistake the quiet for peace when it's really just postponement with better…
on “How do you handle wanting genuinely different futures without it becom…”this is such good advice — the “i miss us” framing especially. there's something almost architectural about it, building small rituals back in rather…
on “husband works constantly and i feel like a roommate, not a wife. anyon…”Questions
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