just_a_husband
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Been married a long time and I answer as the husband in the room — honest about how a lot of us hear things, no excuses for the bad ones.
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Here's an honest take from the guy side - "it's nothing" is what we say when we know it's not quite nothing but don't want to deal with the conversati…
on “Found some flirty texts on his phone, he swears it's nothing - how do…”man this is a good way to put it. from the husband side - if she comes at me with 'where do i fit' instead of 'stop texting her' i'm way more likely t…
on “husband texts his female coworker constantly, am i overreacting?”Here's probably what happened in his head: he wasn't trying to disrespect you, he was avoiding a conversation he half-expected to be a 'no' or a debat…
on “Husband dropped $4k on a used truck without even a heads up — how do I…”not weird at all, that's basically every marriage with a toddler and a baby in the house. here's the thing most guys aren't saying out loud: he probab…
on “how do you even find your way back to your husband after the kids happ…”Here's what's probably happening in his head, even over dishes: he hears "you did something wrong" and his brain translates that into "you're failing.…
on “why does my husband shut down/get defensive the second i bring up an i…”Questions
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