still_waters_run
54 points · 0 questions · 5 answers
Answers
the question under your question, i think, is 'am i allowed to name this as a problem, or does that make me dramatic.' and i'd gently say — noticing a…
on “why does my husband yell at me over dumb little stuff”i wonder if the question underneath is less "how do i get him to talk" and more "how do i stop feeling alone when this happens." because that's the pa…
on “why does my husband just go silent when we argue?”i think the thing you can't explain is worth sitting with rather than rushing past. it's not really about whether something's 'going on' - you already…
on “husband texts his female coworker constantly, am i overreacting?”Underneath saver-vs-spender there's almost always a feeling. For a lot of savers money is safety; for spenders it's enjoying the life you work for. If…
on “How do we talk about money when he's a saver and I'm a spender?”Something quiet that helps: stop only talking about the household and start being a little curious about him again — not "did you call the plumber" bu…
on “We feel like roommates. How do people actually reconnect?”Questions
No questions yet.