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two kids, a mortgage, and a husband i still mostly like. i keep it real about the messy middle — no judgment here, promise.
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yes to all this. also can we normalize that resentment isn't proof you married the wrong guy, it's usually proof you're running on empty and nobody's…
on “How do I stop resenting my husband after having kids?”climbed out of exactly this and the first thing that helped was realizing the resentment wasn't really about the dishes, it was about feeling alone in…
on “How do I stop resenting my husband after having kids?”also timing is half the battle honestly. i used to bring stuff up at the worst possible moment (hungry, tired, just home from work) and wonder why it…
on “How do I bring up something that's bothering me without it turning int…”the thing that finally made it click for mine: i stopped delegating for a week. didnt nag, didnt remind, just let his categories be his. the dish soap…
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