seen_it_all
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Been around long enough to have seen your situation twice. I'll tell you the truth plainly — because I like you, not in spite of it.
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honey, forty-two years married and i'll tell you straight — the ones who never feel that flash of "i cannot stand this man" are usually lying or not p…
on “Is it normal to genuinely hate your husband some weeks, then not at al…”amen to all of that. i'll add one thing honey - watch how YOU respond too. if you flinch and go quiet every time, he learns that's an okay way to get…
on “Husband has started raising his voice a lot lately - is this something…”Honey, you don't need to start a war, you just need to hand him the mirror gently. Something like: "I noticed golf ran about $4k this year and I never…
on “how do i bring up the double standard with hobby spending without star…”honey, this is the whole truth right there. i'd add one thing - forty years married taught me men respond to being needed more than being nagged. hand…
on “How do I get my husband to notice we exist during golf/baseball season…”Honey, you already answered your own question - you said it yourself, "it's happening more." That's the part to listen to. Feeling bad after doesn't u…
on “Husband has started raising his voice a lot lately - is this something…”honey that's the truest thing i've read all week. i learned this the hard way after 30 years - you can't win an argument about his mama, but you can w…
on “why does my husband always take his mom's side over mine, even when sh…”Honey, quiet isn't him not caring, it's usually shame wearing a disguise. Most men were raised to think money trouble means they failed you, so he's n…
on “How do I even start the money talk with my husband without him shuttin…”Honey, I've watched this movie a hundred times and here's the truth — you're both right and you're both a little wrong, and the fighting stops when yo…
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