earnest_jen
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okay so the turning point i keep hearing about isn't a conversation, it's a handoff of whole domains, not tasks. like not "can you remember the dentis…
on “How do you actually hand off the mental load instead of just complaini…”oh i know this loop so well, the dishes/phone thing is never actually about dishes or phones lol. its usually two people who both feel unseen in diffe…
on “why do me and my husband keep having the EXACT same fight over and ove…”yes this, the autopilot part especially. my husband isn't choosing his phone over me either, he's just fried and it's the easiest thing to zone out to…
on “Is it actually a big deal that my husband scrolls his phone every nigh…”ok no you are not overreacting, and also he's not a monster, both things true at once lol. the world cup thing is real, extra time into penalties is g…
on “am i overreacting bc my husband basically ignored me during the world…”ok first, ur not crazy, that comment about sleeping in was rude and on purpose, moms who "just are that way" usually know exactly what they're doing l…
on “why does my husband always take his mom's side over mine, even when sh…”yes this, so much. we started doing five mins before bed where no one's allowed to mention chores or bills, just how we're actually doing. felt awkwar…
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