mike_themidwest
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yeah, catch this early. good instinct. yelling that keeps happening, even if he feels bad after, is a habit forming right now and habits get harder to…
on “Husband has started raising his voice a lot lately - is this something…”yeah this is super common, honestly. dating brain is different than 6-years-in-married-with-life-piling-up brain. the effort doesn't always mean he ch…
on “husband used to plan everything, now i have to do it all - normal?”yeah the joking comments won't do much, guys tune those out fast, i know cuz i've done it lol. what actually works is picking a real moment, not mid-s…
on “How do I get my husband to actually put his phone down and look at me?”yeah, this is more common than people admit. work eats a guy alive and he doesn't even notice he's gone until you say something. good news is you don'…
on “husband works constantly and i feel like a roommate, not a wife. anyon…”yeah my buddy's wife told me the same thing about him, so you're not alone here lol. a lot of guys just freeze up when things get heated. its not that…
on “why does my husband just go silent when we argue?”good stuff here. i'd just add: pick a calm moment, not right before bed or when he walks in tired. timing matters almost as much as the words. i learn…
on “How do I bring up something that's bothering me without it turning int…”yeah i've seen this a lot, honestly sounds like a pretty common guy thing. some of us don't process stress out loud, we process it by going inward and…
on “Why does my husband retreat into silence whenever he's under pressure?”this is so true. car rides are like magic for this stuff, no eye contact and he cant walk away either lol. my husband opens up way more when we're doi…
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